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As anybody who’s ever had to play "What are your top five favorite movies? A fantastic woman several years my senior recently told me I should only date older men, because even though I’m 28, "being in your twenties is a form of functional retardation." I think there’s a grain of truth there, if only because I don’t know anybody who looks back and thinks, "Man, how awesome was I in my twenties?" except for aging pageant queens and John Mellencamp. I know this because I once worked with a 42-year-old man who was skipping his daughter’s birthday because "she’ll have one every year, but you never know when they’re going to shut down Burning Man for good."True, another factor is judgment from other people, who may see a 44-year-old going to dinner with a 25-year-old and make judgments about which one of them is drowning in student loan debt.I contend that as long as nobody is being willfully creepy (I see you, guys in Ferrari hats), this kind of limitation is mega lame.
This is the most compelling reason behind why younger women might go for older men: they’re daddy substitutes.You know generally what you’re going to get from someone by a certain age, because they’ve fully committed to their personalities.The idea that young people like older people because of the financial security is irritating.Some of us limit our potential partners to a very specific age range because that’s what we think we’ll be attracted to.This kind of culling is even easier now that dating sites let us whittle our options down to the year.
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But if you’re not into someone because of the arbitrary time in which their parents created them—well, more tasty imperfect flesh for the rest of us.