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As for free English lessons, although my husband and I only communicate in English, I know of several couples who speak Chinese because their boyfriend or husband doesn't speak a word of it.From my experience at least, contrary to some stereotypes, getting free English lessons doesn’t seem to be a big priority for them when it comes to dating Westerners.Although Hollywood's portrayal of us American women is taken by Chinese to mean that we're all "open minded" (meaning you have a list of past relationships that numbers in the double digits or are open to one-night stands) the guys worth pursing a relationship with will respect your boundaries if you're clear and upfront with them.One of the first things I noticed about the younger guys in China are that they almost always carry their girlfriend's purse.Physical intimacy comes pretty slowly if the guys are serious about dating.
They're slow and spend a lot of time texting and talking to show their interest in you.
A decade ago, my plans for coming to China included teaching for a year, two...maybe even three, before returning to the US to start my teaching career.
Dating was not part of my plan, so when it happened, I was completely unprepared for it.
I didn't realize just how common this is when we were dating and I got lucky and found a guy that likes to stay close to home.
The two times he's been given the option to go to Inner Mongolia, and triple his income, he's turned it down.