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He asked if I was a virgin and I told him yes and that I wanted to remain abstinent until propsal/marriage.
Well I put myself in a bad situation with him (we agreed to sleep in the same bed without having sex).
But honestly, the main lesson I’ve learnt is a difficult one: it’s frustrating and easy to pretend it’s not true, but God’s way is the best way, like it or not. There is good reason for this instruction, but I remember in my youth groups and with my Christian girl friends we would find so many excuses to ignore it, because we liked guys that weren’t Christian and wanted to justify ourselves!
It’s so easy to do, but I have dated a few non-Christian guys and in my opinion, it’s not worth it.
But again, I’ve done this wrong before, and believe me if you have a non-Christian boyfriend, sticking to this is a whole lot harder, and it causes huge amount of heartache and hurt.
God set this rule for a reason, and it’s too clear in the Bible to try and argue your way around it (me and my friends tried that one too!
I have found that the main challenges facing Christian girls (and the ones I struggled with HUGELY) are dating non-Christians, not having sex before you’re married, and the christian relationship myth!
That’s not the case, the only perfect love is the love God has for us.There isn’t a constant stream of sunlight around us. But God is faithful, and prayer that he will sustain you goes a long way.Some days, love will be a choice, but that proves that it’s real.If you trust in Him and listen to what he says about relationships, He will work for your good.Dating is complicated, tricky, testing and can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. Doing it right is flipping hard and requires some serious dedication.
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I’m not claiming to have this down, or to always get it right.