Text message dating book
And I don't believe in waiting three days from first meeting or first date.I will say, though, that it's worth adding a little more to this fairly generic text if you're feeling confident. One doesn't want to upset the balance by texting too much, too often or too many weird things. It's inevitable that, sooner or later, you'll forget a book or earring or other personal item at your gal or guy's place, but then you don't want them to think that you left it there on purpose, so as to garner an invite to come hang out sometime soon.
Yes, it could come off sounding dumb — but if you don't add anything of the sort, you're sure to come off sounding flat. For some, their very first text communications are emoji-laden; others much prefer to hold off until they're at least a few texts along. Whatever it may be, this text box winds up empty in the end. Unless your new beau suggests a visit to the local satanic cult gathering (and even that might be worth checking out if you're really into them), most early-days texts would reveal a "yes" response to almost anything. Who can say if love is in the air for sure or not, but signs point to yes.
And in the case that he ignoring you, you're better off not responding anyway.
On the other hand, there is such a thing as texting too little.
If those exciting, dizzying first months wind up being the beginning of a long-term relationship, you'll likely look back at those yards and yards of texts with a mixture of bemusement and affection — how painstaking it was to decide whether to write "hi" or "hey".
How cautious you were about texting too often or too little!
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They show that you're excited about what's happening between the two of you, and, contrary to popular modern-dating belief, this is a good thing. Either way, this is a feel-good text to send as well as receive, and warms the very cockles of your heart (and your partner's, probably/hopefully). You've felt it, you've said it, you've meant it; and now you've texted it, or had it texted to you.